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a little bit adventure, a little bit wisdom, a little bit whatever

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Rorschach's Journal

From our local Halloween party (I went as Rorschach from Watchmen) for our 10 minute poem:

"October 25th, 2014. 

I have fallen into the basest of cesspools known as Dark Souls. Surrounded by the foul stench of decay and depravity, these demons rob me of my humanity until my soul has become hollow. Though it seems futile, I struggle to break these chains and and rise up against the dark creatures that torment me. I will beat them back. I will prevail. I will return from the dead, if I do so with my final breath."

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Long ago and far away

One of the reasons for this blog is to take a look back at some of my past trips. My first big one was to the U.K. in the summer of '96. Deb was going to study the British healthcare system as part of her masters in public health. I was just tagging along for the ride.

We visited so many places and did so many things. There's no way I can recount them all here. But we spent most of our time in London.


London is a special place. I've traveled a lot but I don't think there's anything quite like it in the world. The tube, the museums, the history, the theaters, the constant activity of it all. A high bar to start your traveling career.

Perhaps my favorite place on the trip was York. It's a pretty typical rural British city, but with a bit of big city feel to it. Very different from London. It's a roman walled city. I walked the wall all the way around the city (not as far as you might think).



My favorite part of York was the "Ghost Walk". Basically, a bunch of starving actors taking us from site to site in the city, telling ghost stories and trying to scare us with men in sheets and rattling chains and the whole deal. Lots of fun.

In Scotland, the main attraction was Edinburgh castle. Quite an impressive sight.


With the recent vote in Scotland, it reminds you how different England and Scotland are culturally, but yet also alike in many ways. (Much like different parts of the US, I guess.) It definitely had a different feel, if only the thick Scot accents. There the fish and chips come with with mushy peas (which are peas soaked overnight and then boiled until they are ... well mushy). Which is all fine and good, but (as we discovered) you might want to ask for them on the side or they might just pour them right on top of your fish. Ha!

Near the end of the trip, we were given free time and could travel anywhere we wanted. We chose Aberystwyth, Wales because ... well it was the farthest we could find from everywhere else.



It was a great choice. It's a big seaside tourist destination during the summer, but when we were there it was very quiet and peaceful. A good place to relax and enjoy ourselves. And a great way to cap off a great trip.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

42

So when I was young, I fell in love with this awesome parody known as "The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy" by Douglas Adams. Just chock full of side-splitting creativity, lampooning just about every trope in the world of science fiction. And as someone whose read and watched a lot of scifi, I couldn't help but laugh my ass off on just about every page. 

So what does this have to do with me? After all, this isn't a book of the month club. Well one of the most well-known bits in the book goes something like this:

A group of people decide they are going to create a computer that (in true Isaac Asimov-ian fashion) can compute the answer to the meaning of life, the universe, and everything. Well to make a long story short (too late), after thousands of years the computer comes up with the answer:

42

Ofcourse that doesn't make any sense but the computer explains the problem is we don't know the question. So what's  the question? Turns out that is a little bit harder and we'll need a few more millennia to figure it out. (Please excuse my liberal paraphrasing and massaging of details.)

So getting back to the point (there was a point?), as I turn 42 what does that make me? A work in progress? Trying to figure out the meaning of life, the universe, and everything?

Sounds about right. I can live with that. 

Monday, August 11, 2014

Maine

I've been hoping to take a trip to Maine for many years now but something always came up. Things finally came together this summer during my trip to New York. 

Started off by driving to Boston to see the Blue Man group. 
The show was amazing. It was surprising how small the theater was. Got a great up-close look. It was great fun!

Then it was up the coast to view some lighthouses. 
Cape Neddick was very nice even with the fog. And Cape Elizabeth was good too inspite of the coastal traffic. 

The campgrounds at Acadia were full so that meant pitching the tent at the Koa. But hey they had s'mores one night and I got to indulge family tradition by getting an ice cream sandwich. The first day there was spent exploring the park by bus, particularly Sand Beach and the coastal area.  

The second day was spent at Cadillac Mountain, Thunder Hole, and some more remote areas of the park. 

As rain clouds started to move in, I took the opportunity to give the famous Maine lobster a try. 
And capped it off with a viewing of Guardians of the Galaxy. 

An amazing, exhausting, wonderful trip. Definitely worth the wait. 

Thursday, July 10, 2014

My Opinion on Their Opinion

A lot has been said about the SCOTUS Hobby Lobby decision. And I will add my own 2 cents here as well. But I really see this as part of a larger trend, so let me make that point first.

Whether you are liberal or conservative, politically active or indifferent, is not the point. I think we would all agree that many of the court's decisions are very frustrating. Whether I personally like the outcome or not, I find myself scratching my head going: "that makes absolutely no sense". As much as I prefer Obamacare to the alternative, the individual mandate is a penalty, not a tax. Halting the 2000 Florida recount due to violation of the Equal Protection clause, when the original counting of the ballots was just as unequal (if not more so) borders on the ridiculous.

Whenever a downright silly decision comes down, we are always told how there are complicated issues at play (precedent, competing issues, etc.). That's often true and I don't intend to make light of that. But if you need a contorted series of complex acrobatics to justify your point, then that is usually a sign that you don't have an argument. You have an opinion and are desperately trying to find any means to justify it. In fact, the decisions are called just that, legal opinions. There seems to be no real right or wrong, up or down, when it comes to them. We glorify the constitution when it suits us and ignore it when it does not (in some cases at the same time). People laugh when Bill Clinton said "it depends on what the meaning of the word 'is' is" but that's the kind of splitting hairs that SCOTUS seems to use all the time. Not to interpret the law, but bend it to their pre-conceived political views (both conservative and liberal). And that is sad.

So now to Hobby Lobby and why this decision is just plain wrong. And if you initially disagree before your knee-jerk reaction, it has nothing to do with what I believe about contraception or religion. Don't make the mistake of deciding what you feel about those and then finding a legal justification to support it.

I could make a list of several flaws in the decision, but let me just focus on the main one. The idea that Hobby Lobby is having its religious freedom violated. To understand why this is so misguided, we need to understand what Hobby Lobby is. Hobby Lobby is a corporation. Corporations are a legal construct created for one purpose. Limited Liability. Say I decide to make some money by selling hamburgers, but I realize that if I do a bad job I could loose a lot of money (perhaps everything I own). So instead, I create an artificial entity called DaleDonald's and invest *some* of my money in it. Now if the business goes down in flames, only the money I invested is at risk (or liable). The rest of my money is safe. This has been a very useful tool for society because it allows corporations to take financial risks that they otherwise would not. The whole point of incorporation is to create a separate legal entity that is independent from the owners. This is all Business 101 that you learn in high school, and yet the supreme court seems blissfully unaware of it. Making Hobby Lobby do something is not, by definition, making the owners do something. I can guarantee you that if Hobby Lobby goes belly up and owes money, the owners will be all "Who? Hobby Lobby? That's not me. I just work there." Can't have your cake and eat it too.

Unless you believe that the Hobby Lobby corporation has religious beliefs independent of the owners, there is essentially no case. And don't even get me started on the whole corporations are people bullshit. The idea that an artificial, legal construct has greater rights than real, breathing human employees ... Ugh, don't get me started.

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Florida

Just visited Tova and Daniel and the grandkids Eliana and Josiah in Florida. It was an exciting, fun-filled week.

Went to Sea World twice. Saw the amazing sea life. So many animals, and ofcourse had to see Shamu.


And went on some awesome rides.


Yes, that is a roller coaster where you ride facing down! Also visited Bok tower. Roamed the gardens and fed the fish. 


Had a day to myself and went to Tampa and saw a bunch of animals at Busch Gardens. 


And cooled off from the brutal heat at Adventure Island. 


But most of all, loved every minute of reading stories, putting together puzzles, and playing games with the kiddos. 


Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Resurrection

So it's no surprise that after my move to Virginia Beach this blog has gone neglected. My focus has been elsewhere, busy building a new life is a lot of work. With many good distractions keeping me away. 

I could go into several pages about how my life has been about reinventing myself over and over, but that's a blog for another day. 

Instead, I'm gonna keep this post simple and to the point. I've been inspired by a friend to start this up again with a slightly different focus. I will still be using it as a forum for talking about my trips and my life. But also my thoughts and feelings, which honestly is something I have never been good about sharing. Again, a post for another day. 

For now, I will simply declare my intentions to restart this blog. Let the adventure begin.